Do you take care of your spouse?

Do you constantly do things for him or her in the same way a parent might? Making sure they have what they need, worrying about them more than yourself, making sure they are comfortable? Maybe even nagging a little to make sure they don’t forget something? Is it even between the two of you, with both of you doing things for each other? Or, do you function more independently taking care of yourselves mostly.

Is the caring in the form of chores? Things like cooking and laundry? Earning money?

Is it waiting on them hand and foot?

Is the set up as you would like it? Or, do you wish it were different?

For this Q I am not talking about extremes like a severe illness (God forbid) just regular daily life.