Are you okay with your partner staying out all night?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907) January 17th, 2015 from iPhone

My bf and I have been together over 3 years. Tonight, his friend had a get together and I didn’t want to go so I stayed home. Bf said it would only be a few hours and I’m like ok…4 hours passed and he said he will be home soon. 30 minutes pass and he asks if I want any food because they all decided to go eat at a diner.

At this point it’s almost 3am and would be 4 by the time he got back and I get upset with him. He hangs out with the guys and sees them almost every week, why does he need to stay out past 3am??

Am I being a needy selfish girlfriend here? What would you do? I can’t sleep when he’s not here and I worry when he’ll be back.

Times he had come in at 5am and I was okay with it cuz snowboarding late specials are late and we’ve been through that. But not knowing sucks.
What would you do to compromise?? Am I being unreasonable??