Would you take back a "cheater"?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907) January 18th, 2015 from iPhone

Also, please refer to this scenario and not just the one playing out in your mind. This is regarding my friend I posted about several months ago http://www.fluther.com/175484/what-advice-do-you-give-to-a-friend-that-might-be/

She ended up moving back home across the country because her husband shut down communication, started acting single, and chatting up some lady on instagram. After she left him because she couldn’t get through to his mind, he and the other girl he met online visited eachother.

Months later my friend says they’re talking again and taking things slow working on their marriage. She said he said that the girl and him was never more than friends and that he went to see her and posted up a lovey shout out on instagram because he was hurt she left and wanted to make her mad as a knee jerk reaction.
They’re going to marriage boot camp/counseling which is huge because he would’ve never agreed to it!

None of my business but very curious, what do you think based off what I told you? Back then you could never get him to go to counseling but now they’re doing it and he’s also seeing a therapist because part of him acting out was apparently depression/anxiety.

I wished her the best of luck and that was it. I don’t believe the “never more than friends” part. I think things didn’t work out and he came running back to her.