Will I ever be able to find someone to love me?

I have bad anxiety. It tends to get worse with dating when I like the person and has a tendency to ruin any chances of love for me. Often, I am reacting to a very real concern, but often times my emotions ruin any chances of love. When I was younger, it did not affect my relationships as much as it does now. I find there is less men to choose from . When I find someone I like, its very difficult for me, especially with the lack of real communication these days ( aka texting). I am decent looking woman in my 30s and highly educated. I have tried hobbies such as yoga and exercise to help ease my tensions. I am on medication. However, nothing seems to work. My efforts only put a band aid on my feelings, The only action that releases my anxiety is to react to it by doing something irrationall. I usually can’t get past a couple dates. Am I doomed to be single forever?