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Does she have a right to be mad at me?

Asked by VirgoGirl826 (469points) May 29th, 2016

So earlier my friend texted me saying that me, her and another friend of ours are set to live in some off-campus housing next year. Problem is, I didn’t sign up to live there. I’ve told her more than once that I do not feel comfortable living off campus; I prefer the convenience of being able to walk from my dorm right to the school and back… for example if I’m pulling an all nighter or something, I want to be able to walk right home @ 2 in the morning and not be stuck waiting for somebody to come pick me up since I don’t have a car. She insisted she will give me rides to/from school whenever I need them even though I have a full course load, and she’s only got one class and already has this complex about people “using” her for her car. We weren’t sure if they would even let her live in housing this year, since students have to be taking a certain number of credit hours to live in the dorms and like I said she’s only taking one class. And I didn’t see the logic in signing up for some off campus housing when I’m not even sure the one person that can give me rides to and from school is even going to be allowed to live there or not. So me and another roommate I had this last year signed up to live together again instead (ON campus). I told her this and she got kind of passive aggressive. I told her not to take it personally, and I feel like my reasoning is legit, but she never texted me back. Plus I’m not going to lie (I didn’t tell her this), but I’ve lived with her for the past two years and I really don’t want to for a third. Reasons. So does she have a right to be mad at me?

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