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What are some alternatives to channelling a high sexual drive or lust into something other than sexual behaviors?

Asked by Rethroz (38points) December 30th, 2016

As the question states, I am seeking alternatives to channel my (high) sexual drive into something other than sexual tendencies or behaviors. I am in a relationship with an incredible woman and I do not (in no way) want to ruin the relationship because of my lust.
I may be able to say with high confidence that an influence on my sexual drive can indeed be her. I know some of you may need clarification and I shall explain :
 To me, she has an amazingly attractive body. She’s gorgeous all around, not only in beauty, but also in mind and personality. I’m attracted more than greatly to her intelligence and that body of hers. I seem to have a hard time controlling myself when her body comes into contact with mine.. regardless, her or her body is not and never will the blame. At the end of the day, I’m the one engaging in the behaviors and I have full control over it.

I know it’s all a little off track, but insight helps. I would like answers in accordance to your personal experience or stories you’ve heard of ways others (or yourself) have been able to control this sexual drive problem. I thank you all for your responses, have a great rest of your day/night.

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