What is it like being friends with your ex?

Have you found it more rewarding than painful?

How long were you not friends, post-breakup, before it felt ok to spend time together again?

Has friendship led to getting back together, either romantically or physically? If it hasn’t, do you hope it does?

(Saucy deets: recently broke up with my fiance of 14 years. A friend has been advising me against trying to renew friendship with my ex. I don’t see a downside, but am willing to admit I know nothing about this. So, hoping you guys have some experience to share.)

Also, hi! It’s nice to see you all :)