How do i get over the one that got away?

Asked by Durnnnnn (26) January 16th, 2020 from iPhone

Need help getting over someone. WHAT DO I DO ???
This guy, we aren’t talking anymore, we weren’t even officially ‘going out’ but it was very much real, it’s over now for reasons sort of out of our control….. I’ve been through this shitty breakup phase millions of times but this one is so different. In all my naivety I genuinely believe he is 100% the one that got away. Nobody has ever matched me like he does. I feel unbelievable empty and incomplete and sick to my stomach because I feel like I’ve missed the biggest and most important opportunity of my life. HOW do I get over this? Wtf is going on ?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿ I cant focus on anything and my life feels pointless without him. He’s so close yet so far away. I know what he wants and I fully believe nobody is more perfect for him then I am. Fuck fuck fuck fuck my life.