Do you have any friends or acquaintances in your life that, due to circumstances, you had a total change of opinion about?

Do you have any acquaintances or friends that, due to circumstances in your relationship or in your life, you did a total turnaround in your opinion of them? Either that you thought they were good people and something made you come to think of them as not good, or you were leery of and something made you realize that they’re actually really good people?

I have a friend who does this passive-aggressive thing where, when she gets mad at people, she doesn’t discuss it, she just ghosts them for an undetermined amount of time. It could be a few weeks, it could be a few months, it could be longer than a year. There’s no discussing it because she is not open to phone calls or texts during that period. She didn’t do it to me but she did it to other mutual friends and combined with other behaviors, I’ve started to think of her as not that good of a person. She has other good traits but I now think of her as bad news. I decided to distance myself from her now. Maybe in the future I’ll change my mind.

How about you?