Am I being rash or does my bf really not care?

Its been a year and a half. During the first half, everything has been fine. We are in love. But even since the beginning, I have felt like he care or love me quite as much as I would like…... I told him that I want to talk to him at least once a day, and for him, this is too much! And just other various things he does and doesnt do. He says he loves me all the time, but I think he is just used to me. Like a brother or sister. Not like a real lover. Not like some one he wants to settle down with. We are both 21, so we are not high school kids, but im sure to some of you older folks out there, we seem like kids.

Anyway, last night I brought up the topic of breaking up. I just wanted to know how he felt about it. He gave me no answer, but he says that if im really unhappy I should break up with him, but the thing is, im unhappy with OUT him, not with him. I just feel like he isnt there, thats all _

sigh

Hope im not rambling… gotta get to school soon anyway…