Have you ever met a female commitment phobe?

Here’s the deal. I feel like I am on the other side of the fence…what most “guys” are labeled as. I broke off a six year relationship because I wasn’t ready for marriage (broken up about three months), and I was often told the entire time I was like the guy in the relationship. I never wanted to move in together (but did), or pushed for marriage or anything more serious. Now I am in a position where I am moving on, ready for what’s next…but am wondering how I change my perspective on serious relationships. I like someone who I could see myself dating a few months down the road…but am scared i will make the same mistakes. I don’t want to be afraid of commitment..so I am wondering if there are any women like me. What changed your perspective??