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Why do people still pretend when it is totally and utterly unnecessary?

Asked by TaoSan (7106points) April 7th, 2009

Let’s assume this: You are totally and entirely un-judgemental, proven. Everyone around you knows that you are the person that will find reason in even the worst misdeeds, taking people for who they are and not what they do.

Moreover, because you are aware of people being aware of this, you find it insulting or hurtful if people think they have to pretend to you.

Why do many people still put up a show for you, risking to alienate you rather than just being true to themselves?

Can you relate? Real life examples?

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