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I need advice on how to help my gf with emotional stress from abortion.

Asked by earthquake (7points) May 20th, 2009

Hey….im 20 yrs old, and have fallen in love with the msot amazing girl ever. never felt this way before and shes perfect for me. she’s recently told me that shes pregnant with her last bf’s baby. she expected me to run or something..but the first thing that crossed my mind was how do i help her. i have been tlaking to her constantly on the phone (she’s back in australia and im in uae so its a bit hush hush over here..shes half way through the abortion now, (2 day procedure) and i lvoe her more for telling me and she loves me more for staying. it was her choice to do this,. i would have stayed either way…but..she doenst want it, and her last bf was a total dick( pardon the language)..any advice on how i can help her..calm her..let her now that im here for her.?? i have no idea and im kinda lost and scared…even though she doenst know that.

thanks guys..

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