Should I go on a date with someone that I've never met and lives overseas?

:-) I mean we live literally far too far apart…And he’d have to fly over here to the UK, because I’m not exactly rolling in cash… and of course then there is the problem of what to do if we do hit it off…long distance relationships…tricky… but then…I’m not really into commitment right now anyway, so it could be good..

But, then, we do both love music and both love our children immensely! Is that all you need? A little something in common. He’s a lovely chap from what I know of him… but likewise he could be a complete psychopath couldn’t he… you just never know!

Do you think this would be a totally bonkers thing to do? – To arrange a date with someone that lives a long way away!