Are you fed up with cancer wreaking havoc on our lives?

I have just learned another family member has cancer. I weep, yet am frustrated that with all of the money spent, fundraising, research, etc..that we are faced with this human condition of helplessness. I had just recently enrolled in a local 200 mile cycling event, for next year, calle RidetoConquerCancer, but still feel so at a loss. I am having friends email me pictures of members of their family who have been affected so I can understand as I raise money for this cause. The avalanche of response has overwhelmed me with the suffering. I need to turn that energy around so I can meet my goal, but it has made me a bit bitter. I am asking how we can deal with this or find answers.