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Is it selfish to keep an affair from your lover?

Asked by identity (32points) September 27th, 2009

Is it selfish to keep an affair from your lover?

I can go either way here, depending on which role I would play in the scenario. Just to make things clear, here are some specifics:

It happened at the very beginning of the relationship. (Although it started off a serious relationship, both parties knew this was “it”)

It was a huge mistake, never to happen again

The couple is now married.

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