Have you had more than one serious relationship at a time?

If you have, I’m interested in knowing what you got out of it. Why do you think you were involved with more than one person, especially when such relationships are often disapproved of?

It seems to me that you must have a powerful motivation to be involved this way if you are willing to put up with the disapproval that might happen if your situation became public knowledge. What is that motivation? What does having more than one lover do for you? Is it an ego thing? Is it circumstance? Is it a need you have? Is it about security or self-esteem? Is it something else?