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By letting him pay attention to me, am I leading him on?

Asked by troubleinharlem (7991points) October 26th, 2009 from iPhone

I think dating had an ultimatum – marriage. Why should I waste my time with someone when I know that it wouldn’t work?

- I’ve told him that I can’t see myself with him. He says that it’s okay and that he’ll wait (and has for a year and a half).

- I can’t make myself like him for a month and then dump him for something stupid. I’m not like that and I don’t want to hurt him in any way.

- So… am I doing the wrong thing by letting him be nice to me? I mean, like friends with benefits, but not sexual ones. I’m only 17 – yikes. I don’t get a lot of boy attention because I have mostly guy friends.

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