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Would you disqualify someone from being a potential romantic partner based on voice?

Asked by Anonymiss (84points) October 28th, 2009

A girl emailed me and we’ve been chatting online over the past week. We are very similar and I was starting to get interested in her romantically, so I called her.

Despite being attractive and pretty compatible with me, her voice.. well, she has a deep voice. Honestly, she sounds like a drag queen. I’m not really even sure that drag queens sound a particular way, but that’s what I kept thinking during our conversation.

I only sort of suspect she might be MTF, but I don’t think so, I think she just has a deep voice and an unusual accent. Whatever the case may be, it was kind of confusing for me and now I don’t know what to do.

Usually for me, voice is a good indicator of whether I’ll be attracted to someone and all of that.. I don’t know what to do about all this, I can’t say I love her voice.

Is it wrong to stop things now just because I don’t like her voice? With the compatibilities, should I stick it out?

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