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Should I be worried about guys flirting with the one I love?

Asked by ModernEpicurian (1638points) December 3rd, 2009

I have been with a woman I have now loved for a good while (about 1yr 6months) and the relationship has had its ups and downs, but has been very good overall.

Although, just lately, there seems to have been an influx of men showing an interest in her, flirting etc. I was concerned that I may just be paranoid, so I asked a friend of mine to judge, he confirmed the flirting of one of the fellows in question.

My girlfriend is naturally a nice and semi-flirtatious person, but she says that she is not aware that these men are flirting with her at all, though to me it seems painfully obvious.

Should I be worried?
And, if so, from what perspective?
Is there a way to solve this without smothering my girlfriend too much?

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