Do you opt to not to tell people about fluther more than you do?

I’ve been reading a lot of questions about relationships and sexual preferences and what not and it got me thinking…

I know there’s quite a few couples on fluther and I think it’s lurverific, but what about people that aren’t really sure about their significant other? Do they opt not to tell them about fluther because of fear that they might be saying things to intimate or because they love fluther so much the thought of someone that they had a relationship with is now on something that they hold dear?

Do you not want your friends to know about your thoughts because it might embarrass you?

At any first given opportunity, do you inform others about fluther or do you revert because you fear they might change your experience?