How do you feel about the Catholic church refusing to do any futher charity work if D.C. passes gay marriage law?

First, read this
http://tpmdc.talkingpointsmemo.com/2009/11/catholic-church-says-it-will-stop-charity-work-if-dc-passes-gay-marriage-law.php

What does it say about us a society where accepting others can lead people into such an uproar that they would discontinue their own charitable actions to help others in rebellion? I mean I’m in no way a fan or any organized religion and all that but this goes beyond…I want to understand the logic and fail to see it…it makes me so sad, so frustrated…

I know many of you are believers and would say this isn’t how it’s supposed to be and these people aren’t ‘true’ believers or what not but how can one feel good about any of this? it’s a shame