Have you been accused of something you didn't do?

It always stuns me when someone accuses me of something I didn’t do. I don’t understand where the accusation comes from. I feel like it is a sign of mistrust, or worse. It is particularly bad coming from someone I care very much about, especially if it happens more than once. Then I question how I can trust the person. If I can’t trust them, what’s the point of having a relationship with them?

So have you been accused of something you didn’t do? What were you accused of? What happened as a result? Did a person make the same accusations over and over? Was alcohol or drugs involved? How did you explain these accusations to yourself? Did you forgive them, or just move on?