How do I learn to let go of finding love?

I find myself, on several occasions, that I cannot be alone. I find that desperate need to be with another man – not for any specific reason but rather for just knowing you have a special someone out there that wants to be with you and not because you are family or that he has to but wants to.

So my question to you is this, how can I learn to be satisfied with being myself and not always searching for the next boyfriend?

I do not want to be this way, I do not want to be constantly looking for the next man in my life for I am sure I do not need it. I want to be able to be myself – fun, easy going and carefree. I want to be able to let love come to me instead of me always looking for love. Like a bird, I want love to approach me on his own terms and when I least expect it because I am simply sitting there without actually looking for him.

Is it possible?