What the hell does a guy like me do?

I’m 20 and live in a college town. I’m not a juicer, and I’m not a total jackass. When I go out to bars, I’m completely over looked, and it’s the same story at house parties. I don’t look for a hook up, and I actually care about the answers I get when I talk to girls.

These are supposed to be the best years of my life, but all I find is pain and bullshit. Where do I go to find the girls that are looking for me? Where do I find people I’ll actually get along with? What the hell does a guy like me do to make college fun?