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Why do I get insane crushes on women I meet?

Asked by kevbo (25672points) January 31st, 2010 from iPhone

The craziness is mostly confined to my imagination (i.e I mostly don’t act on them and keep things pretty subtle/polite). And it’s not every woman, but if we share a wavelength of any sort or if she has some kind of spark it’s a pretty sure bet. Recently, I was jumping out of my skin over someone and trying not to careen over the line.

FYI, I’ve been in a LTR for a number of years and have permission to play, although I really don’t know how to negotiate that, since it’s contrary to my programming. Also, it’s a good relationship but not without its deficiencies. I’m sure that’s a factor. I just want some feedback, anyway.

So, what is normal in this regard, and how do you handle your crushes?

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