If you write erotica, can you describe your method?

I’ve been writing a little erotica—for the private consumption of a special person. I’ve noticed that, in producing these fantasies, I get involved in a way that doesn’t happen with other writing. It seems like I’m actually there, doing and feeling the things I’m writing about.

I never know where I am going—and sometimes I don’t even have plans to start—it just happens. But it unfolds before me as I think reality unfolds. As if I were there. All I have to do is watch, feel, and write down what I see.

What’s your process?