[[NSFW]] Is love and sex the same thing?

all i can find are men who want sex! no long termers, no soul mates. Its all about the dance night at the bar: the one night in the motel and then dump. every single one of them! not one was interested in anything but sex! are there any men today who want more then sex, who want more then just a day or week together? are they all animalistic sex consumers who can think of nothing else?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!