Do you think some people are "bar people" and others not?

Just got back from a bar with my best friend.. the first time I’ve been out in months. I’m struck, yet again, by the fact that no one ever wants to talk to me or seems interested in knowing me at all.

In fact, my best friend made friends with these two ladies who were very nice. One of them went and tried to help me out because there was a girl I’d been admiring all night. The new friend asked this girl whether she’d like to meet me, and the girl said no. The friend asked if the girl would like to meet her and she said no. So, it makes me feel like, what is the point of going to a bar, if you’re going to be all bitchy and judgey?