Where exactly should you go and try to meet Women without looking like a stalker and Desperate?

Male age 30.

Never had a gf but want to have one and eventually marry.
I’m a bit late, i guess and i’m really lost.

People here and in other places have told me talking to girls in Bus, or in the street talking to stranger girls and trying to befriend them, is not a good idea and that it seems stalkerish.

Well then what? How else do we single guys find female friends that can turn into love?

Oh and keep in mind, i’m a bit disabled , have knee problems so I can’t go to Dance classes. I also hate going to school and taking classes. I dont plan on going to school ever again. i hate it.
Plus if i study something i’m not the kind of guy that talks and chatters, i concentrate and study. so that is most likely not going to work.