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Is it wrong to not want to see any of my guy friends anymore?

Asked by ducky_dnl (5384points) March 23rd, 2010

I met my old schoolmates Alen, his brother Eric and Caleb, plus two new friends. Today Alen came up to me, gave me a hug, kept watching me during his whole practice and after his practice kept looking at me and gave me another hug when I clearly didn’t want one. Anyway, his older brother Eric gave me a hug, kept laughing and saying the faces I was making were priceless. We were standing there and my little friend Jay (12 years old) Said in front of Alen and Eric, that we were going to get married. Alen looked down sad, then at jay and said “you should feel very lucky.” I couldn’t look at his face until a new conversation started. When Alen and Eric left, I talk to another player on their basketball team and he was like “I’m just shocked.” We were walking outside and I was asking him to tell me what he was thinking, and he just said with a smile: “I don’t have to tell you, it’s my personal opinion.” I jokingly said that I’d follow him all the way to his house and he was like “Sure, you can come to my place and we good mmph.” Then he left and I started talking to my friend Javi. Everyone was like “Javi there’s your wife.” or “Gonna go say bye to your husband?” Javi gave me a hug today and I was shocked. That was like our fourth time meeting. Anyway, Everyone of the guys knows I’m not dating, nor am I wanting to seem like a you know what. I am just friendly, but after hugging them I feel depressed. I don’t feel like I should go back and see them. I know they were just harmless hugs, but I don’t want the closeness. I would never tell them that, so I don’t know what to do. People are putting into my head that Alen likes me, but I just don’t know what to do, say, or think. UGH! Help?

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