Can losing your virginity (vaginal and anal) be unpainful?

My friend just lost her virginity after trying to save it for marriage…haha she made it at 21. Anyways, she said her first time was amazing and that she orgasmed three times! It’s really hard to believe…and she said it was not painful at all. She also tried anal because she didn’t do oral sex…and she said it felt really odd but not painful at all. She did mention he was small, but I always thought that even if small it’d have some kind of pain…?