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How do I find a way to get along with my dad?

Asked by thecourtneylynn (32points) April 6th, 2010

I recently moved into my dad’s house. I have never lived with him. I grew up with my mom. I find it quite difficult to get along with him!

So, I just moved so obvioulsy I haven’t found any real friends, so I am always stuck with nothing to do. All my dad does is go to his girlfriends house and eat dinner and watch t.v. And, this is his classification of “spending time together”

Not to mention, I don’t like his girlfriend. She is so clingy and controlling. She is always rude to others and even trys to act like my mom.

Everytime I ask my dad if we are ever going to spend time together he says “You need a job, a car, and friends” I do… but how is that spending time together? If anything, that would just get me out of his hair so he can go about his boring life with his girlfriend.

I feel like my dad doesn’t even care about me or take care of me like my mom did. If I ask him for anything, he complains. It is his obligation to take care of me… I am his daughter!

If I call him out on it, he plays the blame game and tells me I need to something!!!!! Its frustrating.

HELP!!!!

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