Why do I come off as neutral?

Ok I can not get a f*cking girlfriend. Honestly for the past few years I have tried not to care. In fact the way I live my live my life, women aren’t even apart of it.

I thought women are attracted to guys who don’t care… who are an “asshole” so to speak.

I feel like I come off as neutral to every woman I meet. They do not care about me… nor do they think I’m a pushover. Basically if I were to die, they would say “Aww he died… what a shame he was pretty cool…... so ne way did you see twilight…..”

I don’t fucking understand this game, I really don’t. When I try to be nice, I portray myself as a pushover. When i try to incorporate no care whatsover… well they just don’t care either.

Don’t give me that be patient shit. No matter how patient I am what I am doing will not work. Wtf??????//