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How should I take the relationship to a new level?

Asked by lostman (128points) May 3rd, 2010

So for those who haven’t followed the situation my girlfriend and I had a rough breakup when she ended things and I didnt take it so easy, but I posted on here and got some great advice so I figuerd why not now!
Since the breakup I did take the steps to get my life back in line and also look seriously at what I was doing wrong and could have changed. I didn’t know when or if I would ever hear from her again but after just giving her space and letting things cool down she contacted me. She was a little hesitant at first to talk with me but that turned into us talking all night long. We have talked every day multiple times a day via phone or txt except after she spoke with a counselor and waited till the next evening to call me and said she just took that time to think about things. We still talk every day but I can tell she holds back and dosent like talking about what happened yet. She says she cant tell if what I am saying and doing is true or if I am just trying to talk her back. I want to see her so bad so we can talk face to face and really clear the air but she says she dosent know if shes ready to see me yet but that she really does want to. I know not to push the matter and im ready whenever she is. This women is the love of my life and I want to do whatever it takes to make things work but there are times where I feel like she is ready to move on and many more times where she is wanting to make things work like no other. Where should I go from here and what are some things that have worked for yall in the past?

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