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He decided he wants to be "just friends" but still wants money?

Asked by heartonsleeve (9points) June 16th, 2010

I’ve been dating this guys for about 8 months now. I’m 7 months pregnant and he’s stuck by me 100% with it. 2 weeks ago he told me he wanted us to be just friends and go from there. He also tells me he loves more than any other woman he’s ever been with. He’s had money issues from the get go and I’ve helped him out occasionally. Since he told me he wants to be “just friends” he doesn’t call as much, but when he does call he’s telling me how much he loves me and then asking for money. I don’t want to be one of the other people in his life that has fallen away or not there for him. What do I do? FYI I lost my job as soon as they found out I was pregnant, so I’m trying to support myself and my child on my own and helping him. I’m running out of resources. I really need help. I love him very much and he holds a very special place in my heart, but I’m getting the feeling that I’m being used. Why can’t I just let go, besides the fact that I’m pregnant?

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