How should me and my long distance boyfriend work out who visits?

We’ve been together 3 years and 2 years long distance.

So, I’ve already been to California in April AND July. The plan was to have my boyfriend come see me in September in Ohio before he left for Airborne and Language school for the Army.

He complained about how lame Ohio was and how I should come see him AGAIN because we both like California. I like it but Ohio is my home and it’s really important for me for him to come here so I can feel “old” memories, go to WORK and make money while he visits, have him around my family a little more, and because for the next year or so I’ll be doing ALL the visiting because he’ll be in language school!

So those are reasons why it’s important he visits. Mainly cuz I visited a lot already and visiting him is much more expensive. He doesn’t really make a lot of money in the Army reserve…so for the past few months he’s been requesting active duty (more hours/work in his unit)

He said it’s better for me to see him because it’s going to be difficult with the Army’s unknown schedule for him. He requested more hours to work at his unit so he can make some more money before he leaves for training. I’m like begging him to please come see me and he is angry saying I don’t understand. It’s an unsure thing when he starts the “job” so I can’t book tickets, and it even could be LAST minute till they change.

I don’t know what to do! Should I just visit him AGAIN? I am going broke from visiting him so much. If he visits me then I can make money while he is just staying with me. Oh and I can’t visit him in September because my sister is getting married AND my parents are going out of town so I have to watch their business.