Do you want to be missed when you die?

I see this from two angles.
Angle 1: If I am missed, that means that I was a loving caring individual that people are sad to see go. That would mean that I lived my life exactly the way I wanted. That is a feeling that someone will have had to have earned. They deposit love into your heart, and it is missed when withdrawn to leave this earth. I want people to miss me for that reason.

Angle 2: I don’t want people to be sad because of my death. I want people to be able to laugh and just remember the fond times and anything I every taught them. I don’t want anyone to be sad for one second when I am gone—I wish the best to everyone. Always have.