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Should I tell my gf's son's gf that she bears an uncanny resemblance to my ex-gf and that it really weirds me out?

Asked by kevbo (25672points) August 28th, 2010 from iPhone

Since my gf is older, her son is only a few years younger than me and his gf is also in her 30s (just to give some context). Anyway, she has very similar looks and manner to my ex-gf which really creeps me out not in that it’s “good” or “bad” but familiar. Like I’ve already been up close and personal with her in a former life or something. Or like getting a little lost for a moment in a familiar smell.

I don’t have interest in her other than I think she’s cool and thankfully much more personable than her predecessor. Mainly, I just want to get over being weirded out. Should I make it more of a cathartic public moment or keep my mouth shut and get over it on my own (which so far has been difficult). I would like to just get past it so that I’m not acting weird or creepy myself toward someone who is normal for a change and hasn’t really done anything out of the ordinary.

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