What should be done when you're extremely sexually frustrated?

Hey there I’m currently coming out of a 5 yr relationship with my sons father. We haven’t had sex for like yrs b4 this I’d say it’s been about 2½ yrs since ive had sex. I’m currently seeing someone who I went to school with we’re really starting to click and we have an awful lot in common and he seems to like me. He’s dying to have to sex with me but i think its too soon i told him id like to wait atleast a yr. He said that he would but I dont think that he will, on top of that im dying to have sex with him but i havent acted on my impulses because im scared that this will quickly turn into a “friend with benefits” scenario…but im sooooo frustrated somebody hellllllp lol