Where should we move to?

I’ll save most of the details, but in order to save my marriage and family, I need to find someplace that meets most of the following criteria. Yes, I know there is a chance that most of you will say that this place doesn’t exist. Sure. I know that it probably doesn’t. However, input on a place that more closely meets this criteria would be great.
NOTE: Currently live in suburban Massachusetts, and find it a wasteland of unaware dullards, blathering about cleaning their SUVs, chemical-spraying their unused lawns, manicures, etc.

PEOPLE:
– extremely-progressive/liberal
– less concerned with superficial concerns such as absurd lawns, fancy cars, fancy clothes, etc.
– intellectual
– considerate and compassionate
– creative
– honest

ECONOMY
– within 1 hour commute to city with IT jobs

CLIMATE
– don’t care

Again, this is just the ideal. I’ll take suggestions for places that meet some of these. Thanks!