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To guys only :I got very tipsy at the office christmas party and made out heavily with one of my single colleagues that I am attracted to. I think he thinks I like him now what should I do ? I am married :( oh no?
Ok ok, I know it was wrong okay but it just happened. I never thought this would happen to me.
We were all just having such a good time and yes I am attracted to this guy.
Then it so happened that towards the end of the party we ended up making out heavily, things got really heated between us.
While I was in this state I told him I thought he was cute and that I love him. oh no.
He even told me he thinks I am hot during the session too.
I remember him even suggesting that I come over to his place twice, but when we left together, I got in a taxi and went home.
The thing is , usually people just forget about these things but whenever we are alone or pass each other in the hallway, he gives me a big smile and I could see he is blushing.
I smile back to be polite, but somehow I feel like maybe he enjoyed it and he likes me now.
I am not sure he knows that I am married and that is what makes it horrible.
However at the same time I don’t want to bring up the party at all. He also never brings it up.
However at the same time he is a nice guy and I don’t want to be cold to him as some people might do.
Most of the time I am calm but I try to avoid having full conversations with him and keep it short. I can see he gets offended.
Do you think I am freaking out too much ?
Guys if you made out with a colleague you thought was hot and you did or didn’t know she was married would you keep smiling at her whenever you see her ?
What should I do?