How would you have reacted to this friend situation?

I am going down next week to our “place” in Florida. We became friends with Couple #1 there. Shortly thereafter, close friends of ours – Couple #2 – also bought a vacation place there and now spend more time than I there. We have vacationed with Couple #2 many times and planned things together. Mrs. #2 called me to plan what I want to do and in addition to planning almost every minute with me, she told me when I was going to get together with Couple #1! And as if I weren’t feeling controlled enough, this morning she sent an e-mail to Couple #1 and copied me saying that janbb was looking forward to seeing them on Thursday night! I sent an e-mail back just saying I had already been in touch with Mrs. #1 and also offered my own suggestion for our Friday night – going out to eat. Have not had a response. Was I right to be pissed off and did I handle it ok?

Sorry about the length.