What are females told to shave first, and when?

When it comes to shaving with males it is pretty simple; you shave your nose neighbor (mustache), and when is largely opinion. Some have told me they shaved the minute it was faintly visible because they believed shaving it would make it grow thicker quicker. Others relied on their father’s telling them when. Others still, waited until you could pinch it between the fingers.

With females what are they told to shave first, and when? Like you are told to shave the arm pits first, the legs, the private parts, maybe wax the upper lip first? Is it something that is like male shaving, off the opinion of the individual female and not off some unwritten females’ social standard?