Guys, when was the last time you realized you were ”just a wallet”?

Maybe she was hotter than you felt you should have gotten, or could not fathom she would be interested in you, but she seemed to be. When the truth came busting through she was more into your money, toys, and what you could do for her, how did it manifest that you were ”just a wallet”? She was always asking to ”borrow” some cash? Her money concerns she always brought to you either direct or on the sly? She expected to be 5 stars every time you went out. She was cool to sex unless she had a need, then she was giving but always seemed to try to be done under 15 minutes? What made you wake up and think, ”If I were broke tomorrow, she’d be gone”?