Do you think the differences between the way Facebook handled these exact same postings had something to do with gender?

Here is the snopes articles.

For what ever reason she started receiving hateful, violent threats from men. One said, she should sit on a butcher knife so she can’t reproduce.

When she reported the posts, FB said they were not a violation of their posting standards.

However, when she re-posted them on her own timeline, in protest, she was banned for a month…for violating FB posting standards.