How interactive would you want your home to be?

Somehow you end up the recipient of having an interactive home built for you. How interactive would you want it? Would you want to be able to control lights, temperature, etc. from you Smartphone or PC? Would you want it to somehow know where you are in the house and turn on lights to rooms before you get there and powering down or dimming lights of rooms you left, piping in music you like at a volume catered to you? Would you like it to start the shower set to the right temperature before you get there? Would you want it to open the blinds when the alarm goes off? What would you want the house to do for you either automatically or when you command it?