Have you ever gotten upset when you find out friends have gotten together and did not include you?

I just got into a big argument with a friend of mine. Those here who know me know I have spoken of this friend before. She had a close relative die and she suffered trauma from dealing with his death. She is now a hypochondriac and mentally ill in other ways (anxiety, depression).

She has given me a hard time in the past two years (since his death) for not calling her enough or making enough time to see her. She seems to have gotten past that but today, she expressed that she was upset because I went to a concert this week with two other friends and my daughter and we (I) didn’t invite her.

Do you get upset when you find out your friends have gotten together and did not invite you? Feelings are not always based on logic, as we all know but we don’t always verbalize them.

She really put me on the defensive and I don’t like arguing with people, but it was just a pretty big argument.