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Do you have any weird behavior that you cannot explain?

Asked by valdasta (2146points) September 6th, 2009

On occasion, I will catch myself staring in the mirrior for excessive amounts of time. I am not looking at myself as much as I am trying to look in myself (if that makes any sense). I don’t do it as much as when I was younger; I used to remember going to the bathroom purposely for this rendezvous.

Does anyone else do this? What is this all about? Is there any weird behavior that you have, but cannot explain why you do it?

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shockvalue's avatar

Sometimes, I’m just so damn awesome, that other people hand stand to be around me for extended periods of time, and I find myself alone.

chelseababyy's avatar

@valdasta I do that sometimes. I just sit there and stare.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

@valdasta Me too. I do it to try and see how other people see me, which is kind of a ridiculous attempt, but I it still doesn’t stop me from trying.

deni's avatar

I stare at myself a lot as well. I often smile and stare in the mirror and inspect my teeth, but for way longer than is necessary. I generally leave disappointed as well, so i don’t know why I do it.

markyy's avatar

I did do that a couple of times untill I got really scared of myself. I can’t really explain, but after a couple of minutes of looking at myself (motionless) I didn’t feel like I was looking at myself anymore. Almost like an out of body experience, and this weird fellow kept staring back. By that point I get a bit uncomfortable and I move an arm just to make sure this other fellow is still in my control.

I don’t know why we do this, but I always thought I was the only one doing it. Apparently I was wrong so there must be a reason we do this. Maybe on a subconscious level we are trying to look into our soul (eyes are the window to our soles), or maybe we were all really bored at one moment in time.

YARNLADY's avatar

I am terribly afraid of spiders. I have all the symptoms of danger reflex, for no discernable reason.

evegrimm's avatar

I can explain why I stare in the mirror.

I have lots of nervous tics, does that count? (I finger comb my hair, I can’t sit still, I tap my toes even when there’s no music, etc)

Oh, oh…does touching something painful count? Bruise, cut, whatever, I still touch it, a lot. (I’m not sure if I’m checking to see if it still hurts/if the body part is attached, or what.)

chelseababyy's avatar

@evegrimm I am ALWAYS playing with my hair. Constantly, esp when I’m nervous.

I also have a tendency to stare at things to try to make them move. It never works, but I will sit there and stare at shapes on a wallpaper until it looks like they’re moving.

evegrimm's avatar

@chelseababyy, I do the same (and also look for patterns/pictures where there is none, like in the cracks on the ceiling).

PapaLeo's avatar

Whenever things start going really well, I subconsciously try to sabotage myself. It’s a pattern that recurs every few years. Even though I’m aware of it after it happens, I don’t see the signs as its happening. Prolly has something to do with self image, whether I “deserve” success. The wife has encouraged me to go to therapy to understand my behavior. Maybe I should.

woodcutter's avatar

nope. I have a pretty good explanation for the weird stuff I do.

drdoombot's avatar

Yeah, I hang out at a website answering the questions of complete strangers. And I don’t get paid for it, either!

markyy's avatar

@woodcutter That’s what the people who hear voices in their head say!~

graynett's avatar

Yes, I can smell thing that are’nt there. Once while sitting in church I could smell the very depth of hell. Started as a nice pipe tobacco and slowly made its way through types of sulphide to the smell of melting cast Iron. I think I may have to see someone about it don’t you think?

Facade's avatar

I make a face when I’m concentrating on looking at something like a tv show or a movie. It’s embarrassing. I’m trying to stop.

Jenniehowell's avatar

@chelseababyy I want to be a fly on the wall the day you master that skill of moving objects by looking at them – I can just imagine the hilarious reaction your surprise brings as you throw a coffee cup off a table with your mind – I hope you don’t turn into Sylar from the show Heroes when it’s done.

@PapaLeo if therapy isn’t in your budget or you don’t want to go yet – I recommend the book Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping I did/do the same thing & the book was very helpful. You’d be amazed how much these underlying things we hold onto about self & others affect lifes decisions in a significant way

chelseababyy's avatar

@evegrimm I do that too. And sometimes I’ll COUNT cracks in the walls/ceiling.

@Jenniehowell HAHAHAHA! I wish that could happen. Could you imagine what this world would come to? I’d be running around in a barely-there unitard and cape trying to move EVERYTHING with my mind :D

valdasta's avatar

@chelseababyy I think I can explain some of your weirdness: too much idle time. Ha Ha.
@markyy Same thing happens to me when I have stared in the mirror, it is as if I am not looking at myself at all.
@drdoombot You are right! What is wrong with us?! In a weird way I look forward to the human interaction on the web masked by the veil of the pc. A safe way to be social?
@PapaLeo Maybe in a similar way, I feel guilty when I go to buy something new for myself; I have a hard time doing it. I feel like I don’t have the right to indulge myself or that it is a waste of money, or it should be spent on mom or the kids.

chelseababyy's avatar

@valdasta I think you’re so right.

PapaLeo's avatar

@Jenniehowell Thanks very much!

Jenniehowell's avatar

@PapaLeo no problem

@chelseababyy now I’m giggling even more – I have no clue what you look like but I live in Atlanta,GA where this weekend is dragoncon & all I can imagine are the dressed up like Halloween adults that are currently roaming the streets of our city. I can imagine this misfit band of characters uniting in their onesies for social justice. LMAO

filmfann's avatar

If I could explain it, it wouldn’t be weird!

Bluefreedom's avatar

I don’t at the present time but I’m always willing to learn new things. I yearn to be stranger than I already am.

chelseababyy's avatar

@Jenniehowell Go HERE. That’s what I look like, and let me tell you, I AM A HUGE NERD. I would so dress like this if I could attend the next BlizzCon.

Jeruba's avatar

@Bluefreedom, I love your answer. If I were to have a role model, I think it would be the British eccentric. What kind of strange would you like to be?

Bluefreedom's avatar

@Jeruba. I’d like to be left of center in a surrealistic, discombobulated, unexplainable kind of way. You might as well toss in a little obfuscation just for good measure. And, since I’m going the full monty on this, throw in a few bizarre recommendations of your own and I’ll incorporate those into my quest for ultimate abnormality. =)

YARNLADY's avatar

@Bluefreedom The full Monty – Oh Noooooo. Yarnlady covers her eyes – and peeks through her fingers

Jeruba's avatar

What an opportunity, @Bluefreedom! Far beyond my powers to resist. Let me think about that a little.

chelseababyy's avatar

I keep messing up links, thank you @Jeruba for pointing that out. Go… Here. Which is what I MEANT to post

valdasta's avatar

@Jeruba
@Bluefreedom
I think I AM weird…I am constantly in a state of self-restraint when it comes to actions and verbal responses (in a public setting). This sounds like another discussion topic. Am I normal or just pretending? I think I will ask Fluther.

wundayatta's avatar

I can explain any weirdness. I guess I’m weird that way.

Jenniehowell's avatar

Ok @chelseababyy I’m gonna check your link when I get home from work so I can add it to my mental picture.

BTW I saw an article the other day about people using their minds in conjunction with modern tecnology – perhaps you should volunteer for a study & try it out.

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