Does she like me or not?
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December 3rd, 2009
So, I kinda had a little crush on the girl first and joked and tried to flirt some….but she didn’t seem to be interested , then later I come to find she has a boy friend.
I was like fine whatever then Ill move on….
but every time we see each other at work shes like where have you been, and she always laughs at my corny jokes and we talk pretty easy.
then like today she didn’t seem too happy I was like whats up?
she told me about how she had stressful day and then she goes I wanna do salsa joking around, and she comes up and kinda grabs and goes we’d make good dancing partners but she was serious shes like are monday and Wednesdays are ok for you?
I just kinda declined without saying it and then I said why don’t you take your boyfriend….she goes because hes like wall paper.
Now I am just confused I was sure that she didn’t like me and gonna move on and now I am not sure :\
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The only way to know for sure is to ask her.
She can’t pick a guy like wall paper over you, man. Talk to her.
Girls dont like wallpaper. Straight up ask her, man! And totally do the salsa dancing with her…..
She finds you interesting.
Whether or not she will grow to like you depends on future interactions.
I think you should restrict this to a platonic relationship until you are sure. You couldn’t be sure if she was just being unstable or whatever. It does sound a bit paranoid, but I guess its just precautions we have to take in order to be sure
Heck yeah! Go dancing have a good time. The worst that can come of it is you will get to be a better dancer. Like @belakyre I don’t think I would sample the goods until you are sure (or rather SHE is sure) that Mr. Milktoast is out of the picture. Sounds like fun though.
Mr. Milktoast Wallpaper… hehehe
Sounds to me like she likes you.
She’s got a boyfriend, if she likes you she’ll get rid of him. If she likes you and doesn’t get rid of him and waits for you to make the first move, ask yourself, is that someone you would want to be with?
Never rub another man’s rhubarb
Looks like she’s about to trade-up.
Hey you…..salsa dancing? And you said…NO?
When a woman says, “Let’s go dancing”...and when you say, “But you are attached…” And she says, “He’s like wallpaper….” It’s on its last legs. No woman says that when she is happy. She just doesn’t. That is quite a bit of information to give out.
Maybe she LIKES to do stuff….and HE is a stick-in-the-mud..er…stick-in-the-plaster.
I’ve been there.
Go dance! At the very least….you will make a friend. She was being really bold in asking you….be bold…and go dance! Life is too short to stay home watching re-runs of “Land of the Giants.” Go dancing! But play it cool until you know what is really going on….don’t give your heart away right away, you know?
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